I hope im not pregnant

THIS IS MY FIRST TIME HERE IN STANDUPGIRL. I JUST NEED SOMEONE OR EVERYBODY TO TALK TO ABOUT MY FRUSTRATION.

SO HERE IT GOES.

I’M 17 YEARS OLD. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. WE HAD OUR SEX ON MARCH 26 2009. HE GOT INSIDE ME AND USED CONDOM. BUT HE DIDN’T CUM INSIDE ME. NOTHING HAVE CAME OUT OF HIM. THUS, IT WAS NOT A CONTINUOUS INSIDE AND OUTSIDE MOVEMENT OF HIM..GOT IT?COZ I DUNNO HOW TO EXPLAIN IT..BUT CERTAINLY i KNOW U UNDERSTAND. WELL.,WE DIDN’T FINISH IT COZ I REFUSED. THEN HE fingered(sorry for this word) ME BUT HONESTLY HE TOLD ME HE TOUCHED HIS OWN BUT THE CONDOM WAS STILL ON IT. BY THE WAY THE CONDOM DIDN’T RIP. I TALKED TO MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT MY ANXIOUSNESS..HE SAID I NEED NOT TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING COZ HE’S SURE I WON’T GET PREGNANT..BUT I STILL CAN’T BELIEVE..COZ I CAN’T STOP WORRYING TOO MUCH..

MARCH 30, I WENT SOMEWHERE WITH MY PARENTS FOR VACATION.WE USED THE AIRPLANE..IT LASTED FOR ABOUT 10HOURS.

THE DAY AFTER WE ARRIVED HERE IN KSA, OUR FAMILY EXPERIENCED BLOATING AND WE VOMITED. BUT WE FIGURED OUT THAT IT WAS A CONTAGIOUS DISEASE IN HERE. THEN MY MOM AND I WERE ASLEEP FOR THE WHOLE DAY. THEN, AFTER THREE DAYS..I EXPERIENCED HEADACHE AND SHOULD I CALL It MIGRAINE. IT LASTED FOR EXACTLY 3DAYS. THEN MY BOOBS WERE ACHING..BUT NOT TOO MUCH..I MEAN I CAN HANDLE THE PAIN AND IT’S NOT SO SENSITIVE. I DON’T EXPERIENCE TOO MUCH PEEING. I DON’T FEEL SLEEPY…

I WAS SO PARANOID AND REALLY DEPRESSED FOR A WEEK. I KEPT ON SEARCHING IN THE INTERNET ABOUT SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANCY..AND THEN THERE WAS A TIME I SEARCHED ABOUT JETLAG..COZ MAYBE IT WAS BECAUSE OF THE TIME ZONES AND ALL THAT..

ANYWAYS, I HAD MY LAST MENSTRUATION ON MARCH 13 2009 AND IT LASTED 4 TO 5 DAYS.
AND NOW,,IM STILL HOPING I’M NOT PREGNANT COZ I’M NOT YET READY.
I’M STILL WAITING FOR MY PERIOD TO COME. BUT WHEN DO YOU THINK THAT IT SHOULD COME?
OR IS IT POSSIBLE THAT IT COULD BE DELAYED COZ OF CHANGE OF TIME ZONE OR TEMPERATURE HERE?BECOZ IT’S COLD IN HERE..REALLY.

PLS HELP ME BECOME AT EASE…
I’M HOPING FOR YOUR REPLY AS SOON AS POSSIBLE..

THANKS…

PLS PRAY FOR ME..I DON’T WANT TO BE PREGNANT AT THIS EARLY AGE..I STILL WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE AND FULFILL MY DREAMS..

(At Louie's funeral)
Luke: That ain't me, is it?
Lorelai: What are you talking about?
Luke: What Taylor said about me being like Louie, a loner, never being married and stuff. I mean, I am getting crankier as I get older, he's not so far off.
Lorelai: You are not your uncle. I mean, would Louie ever build someone a chuppah, or help fix things around someone's house without being asked, or make a special coffee cake with balloons for a girl's sixteenth birthday?
Luke: Rory told you about that?
Lorelai: Yes. And would Louie have taken in his sister's kid without hesitating and without asking for anything in return?
Luke: No one would've trusted Louie with their kid. He probably would've forgotten to feed him or something.
Lorelai: You get my point?
Luke: Yeah, I get it.

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I'm so stressed. My third little girl was born February 8th. I love her obviously. She was a surprise for me and my husband and let's just say he was less then thrilled when we found out. We haven't used protection for the past 6 years. Our timing with the pullout method and tracking has always been great. We used it to get pregnant and used it to not get pregnant. The last baby he says TMI it was my fault since I was on top and didn't get off fast enough when he told me to. Anyway fast forward to 6 weeks postpartum with this baby. I went to my follow up checkup and wanted to get the non hormonal iud that lasts for 10 years. My obgyn is part of a major hospital around here. Which happens to be a catholic hospital so they don't give birth control... I had no idea they didn't give birth control until I asked for it. So I have to switch my obgyn to a different one and it's hard to find one that takes my insurance. So the plan was to just go to a planned parenthood and get an iud. I am exclusively breastfeeding and have a toddler so I didn't get a chance to yet. We only had sex a couple times and we were careful. But the other day when I was breastfeeding I notice my nipples were extra sensitive. The next day I felt crampy with lower back pain and still sensitive nipples while breastfeeding. I decided to check my cervix. I used to be super in tune with it. When it's hard I'm about to have my period or just finished my period when it's soft I'm ovulating or pregnant. Anyway it was really soft and has been for 4 days now. I took a test 2 days ago and it was negative. Thankfully. Then after a little bit I had to double check and I saw a shadow of a faint line. Im pretty sure it's invalid but now I'm panicked. I never had any little line unless I was pregnant. If I am I cannot handle 4 kids. I cannot get an abortion. And idk if I'm strong enough for adoption. My heart is pounding. I got a couple cheap tests today and I'm going to take one in the morning. Idk where I would even be in a cycle. I spotted for two days at 7 weeks postpartum and spotted again around 9 1/2 weeks postpartum. I'm 13 weeks postpartum now and I am nervous and terrified. If it comes back negative or I start my cycle I am going straight to get birth control even if I have to hold the baby while they insert the iud. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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